Step out of chaos
Into purpose.
Hands-On Consulting Services
Figuring this out alone is not an option.
Every week you wait, you risk your health, family stability and financial risk. Studies indicate that 1/5 men die from suicide after relationship breakups, especially during the first 1-2 years. Without a clear understanding of the system, legal fees add up, energy spent on the wrong thing leads to bad decisions made under stress, and ruminating thoughts take attention away from kids and family. This group supports your primary survival needs, meta/micro perspective-taking, and logistical navigation tools for divorce.
Stop texting your lawyer at $400/hr
Get fast, clear answers to the questions eating you alive, without the bill that follows.
Talk to men who actually get it
No judgment. No "just be positive." Real men and dads, at every stage, sharing what's working and what isn't.
Make better decisions under pressure
Learn to separate what's emotional from what's strategic, before it costs you in court or with your kids.
Show up as a better dad through all of it
Your kids are watching. This group helps you stay grounded, present, and focused on what matters most.
Whether you just found out, you're in the middle of the process, or you're rebuilding after, there's a seat for you here. The 1st step is the hardest. Take it.
No more than 8 men at one time, 6 sessions, 90 minutes, $240 total ($27/hr).
LOCATION: Local to Indianapolis? Great. We can meet in-person. Further away? We offer videoconference for national/international clients.
Sessions contain
30-45 minutes of education on:
The legal process (not legal advice)
Strategic planning as you prioritize a
survivalist/affordable future
Conflict resolution strategies
Self-care and protection from overload
Education about priorities and expectations
Parenting children and managing family dynamics
Helpful spreadsheets to keep it all together
Literature and research to support empirical reasons for your decisions
45-60 minutes of peer and coach support:
We need each other (Studies indicate that 1/5 men die from suicide after relationship breakups, especially during the first 1-2 years)
What do I need before jumping into another relationship?
Who am I now that I’m single?
Needing help with a complete life change is a strength, not a weakness.
How do I talk to friends and family about this?
Your lawyer takes 2-7 days to call back. I don't.
Divorce doesn't wait for your next scheduled appointment. When something comes up (a text from your ex, a document you don't understand, a decision you have to make today) you need a real perspective fast, not a voicemail.
A real response, not a bot
You're messaging a person who knows your case. You get a perspective, options you may not have considered, and a sounding board. This comes at a fraction of what your attorney charges to pick up the phone.
Overthinking at 11 pm? I’ll answer as soon as I see your message.
Send the message when the thought hits. I'll respond within the window. Getting it out of your head and into a conversation is half the battle.
Filter the noise before it costs you
Some things need a lawyer. Most things don't. This service helps you figure out which is which before you spend $400 on a call that didn't need to happen.
The straight-talk guarantee: No one has a crystal ball—not me, not your attorney. I'll give you honest perspectives and real options, but your choices are always yours. If you feel a session was completely unhelpful, I'll refund up to 30 minutes of that day's service. No hoops. I'm here to support you, and if I didn't deliver that, I want to make it right. I am not a lawyer and can't provide legal advice, but I can share possible situations, regular practice, and when you should seek legal advice.
Cost: This service is billed by use with no subscriptions and no minimums. To start, $25 covers up to 3 message replies or 15 minutes, whichever comes first. Beyond that, time is billed in 15-minute increments at $20 each, so 30 minutes is $40, 45 minutes is $60, and a full hour is $80. You only pay for what you use.
This service is available exclusively to clients who are actively enrolled in group coaching or have begun 1:1 coaching sessions.
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